Hi, I’m Ted Simmons
I help quiet, thoughtful people step out of the shadows—and into their unique power.
For most of my life, I thought shyness was a flaw. Turns out, it was training.
Now I help others reframe their shyness, discover the hidden strengths they’ve been building all along, and find new confidence through creativity, leadership, and yes—even dance.
Whether you’re looking for an inspiring keynote, a life-shifting book, or just a spark to believe in yourself again—you’re in the right place.
Shy Is My Superpower
A personal and practical guide for transforming shyness into a strength—told through stories, strategies, and superhero metaphors.
Learn how your shy traits—like observation, caution, deep thinking, and empathy—are actually superpowers in disguise.
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Transformational Talks for Quiet Powerhouses
I speak to schools, conferences, and leadership groups about turning shyness into strength, the power of saying yes, and how ballroom dance became my leadership training ground.
If you want a speaker who’s vulnerable, engaging, funny—and deeply real—I’m your guy.
What’s Your Shy Superpower?
Take the free quiz to discover which of the 8 shy archetypes best matches your natural strengths—from The Observer to The Silent Leader.
You’ll learn how to stop fighting your shyness—and start using it.
Take the QuizShy Facts You Might Not Know
Discover surprising truths that turn shyness into a superpowerHalf of All People Are Shy
Research shows that around 40–50% of adults consider themselves shy. You’re far from alone in your quiet strength.
Learn more →Shy ≠ Introverted
Shyness is about fear of social judgment; introversion is about energy preference. You can be both shy and outgoing.
Learn more →Shy People Notice More
Studies show shy individuals often observe more before acting, which can enhance empathy, strategic thinking, and creativity.
Learn more →Many Leaders Were Shy
Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, and Rosa Parks all described themselves as shy — yet they changed the world.
Learn more →Shyness Improves Listening
Speaking less at first often means listening more — a skill linked to better decisions and deeper connections.
Learn more →Performance Power
Some of the world’s most famous performers, from Tom Hanks to Lady Gaga, started out shy before embracing the spotlight.
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From “invisible kid” to keynote speaker.
I grew up quiet. I watched from the edges, avoided attention, and learned to read people better than they knew themselves. I never thought those skills would take me anywhere.
But over time, I began testing my limits. I said yes to theater. I said yes to dancing. I said yes to leading.
And I discovered something surprising: The things I thought were flaws… were training me to fly.
Today, I help others do the same.
Ready to work together?
Whether you’re looking for a speaker, media guest, or want to collaborate—I’d love to hear from you.
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